S/A take one?

Cycle 9, CD 34, 11 DPO

Adding to the list of signs you may have been TTC too long:

8. Typically a very cautious and considerate driver, you suddenly develop an insane case of road rage as you race your husband's semen sample to the clinic after snatching it from his hands and, ignoring the look of horror on his face, stuff it down your shirt as you fly out the door.


DH had his s/a scheduled this morning. I was concerned about his "stage fright" playing a factor but he actually came through like a champ - no pun intended. I made it to the clinic in fantastic time despite every single road I normally take to get there being closed or slowed due to construction. Ah the joys of a Michigan summer. I must have jinxed myself by thinking how smoothly this was all going because I had no soon had that thought as I was pulling his sample out to hand to the clerk when I noticed that it was bright red. I didn't want to waste time puzzling over it so I handed it over, finished the paper work, and headed home. I called DH to let him know everything had gone well when after hemming and hawing for a few minutes he blurted out that there was a bunch of blood in his sample and he was more than a little freaked out. After talking for a few minutes, he mentioned that he'd had some mild pain last night similar to what he's had in the past when he think he's been passing kidney stones.

So when I got home I called the clinic. When I finally got through to a tech, he told me that the coloring was obviously not normal, so much so that he had already called my doctor's office to let them know. I asked if it would interfere with running the test and he wasn't very sure but once again asserted that it was something DH was going to need to have checked out. Yes, I know, thank you Captain Obvious. But since we're paying out of pocket for this, I needed to know if we should let them go ahead with the testing. He suggested calling my GYN's office which I did and of course had to leave a message. Thankfully the nurse called back fairly quickly. She agreed that it was entirely possible that passing a kidney stone could be the source of the blood since semen and urine pass through the same opening. She was also unsure of how it would affect the results but agreed to call the tech at the clinic to come to some sort of consensus on whether or not to run the sample. I gave my full blessing to cancel if we aren't going to give any info out of it. The last of these conversations happened while I was on the road to pick up DH's youngest sister to come spend the next few days with us so I didn't hear any more today.

After Googling this, it seems that for the most part hematospermia (blood in the semen) can be fairly benign or signal a problem further up the tract. Great, just what we need, something to be wrong with DH too. I mean, this is the first time we've noticed it but thinking back, there have been times even before TTC that after BDing, DH would go to clean up and come back to ask if he had hurt me because he'd noticed a bit of blood. Once or twice I've noticed my cervix had been irritated from getting carried away but now I wonder if more often than not the pink was from him and we just assumed it was from me because well...you don't assume that it's from him. It just starts a whole series of "what ifs" the biggest of course jumping straight to....."what if we're just not meant to have kids?" Fortunately, DH has an appointment to meet his new primary doctor next Thursday so this is going right up at the top of the list of things to talk about. I'm half tempted to call and schedule a urologist appointment as well but I don't want to step on toes. But just to get a head start, maybe I'll start asking the docs at work for a couple of names for who to go too.

AND as if this wasn't enough to deal with today....I think I started spotting too. :o( Cycle 10, here we come...joy.